Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Saturday, December 20, 2014
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Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Monday, December 15, 2014
December 18, 2014
WHO: Dads, Granddads, Uncles, Brothers…..MEN! Community Agencies and Fatherhood and Family Advocates!
WHERE: Neighborhood House Inc. 1218 B Street
WHAT: This meeting we will be planning for “Family Day!” We need All in Attendance for ideas and to form a Family Day Committee!
WHY: Together we can achieve more !
Please return information below by Tuesday, December 16 2014 to firstname.lastname@example.org if you plan to attend. Also please forward this email to any individual that may be interested in joining us!
DFFC Member: YES_____________ NO_____________________
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Monday, December 01, 2014
Sheraton Gateway Hotel
6101 W. Century Boulevard
Los Angeles, CA 90045
February 17-20, 2015
Held annually on the West Coast of North America the National Families & Fathers Conference is at the heart of Fathers & Families Coalition of America (FFCA). Top 5 Reasons to Attend 16th Annual National Families & Fathers Conference: 1. Opportunity for Partnerships. 2. Accelerate Learning. 3. Learn About New Trends. 4. Get Inspired. 5. The Best Ideas Come When You Least Expect It. Finally, when you look at the registration fees for this conference, you will discover it is designed to offer great opportunities at a very affordable cost. More than 80 nations have taken advantage of plenary sessions, distinguished speakers, professional development skill building sessions and FFCA special events.
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Saturday, November 29, 2014
What an Awesome Day!! On Wednesday, October 29th, First State Community Action Agency partnered with Feed The Children and Playtex Energizer to provide 800 boxes of food, toiletries and other necessities to families in need. This is the second year First State has partnered with Feed the Children and Energizer to bring relief and support Delaware families.
The distribution event took place at Playtex in Dover, Delaware. Vehicles lined up as early as 8:00 in the morning for their boxes of food, Avon Products, and toiletries. More than 50 Volunteers from partnering organizations, including officers from the Delaware State Police and Dover Mayor Robin Christiansen, helped load food and toiletry boxes into their recipient vehicles.
The weather couldn't have been better—the rains held back and the sun kept its shine, giving us a magnificent, Spring-like day! And what a beautiful day it was to serve!! What a joy it was to serve! Truly those who received greatly benefitted and were most grateful.
First State wishes to thank all those who took part in this momentous effort. Thank you to all the sponsors—Feed The Children, Energizer, First State; the Mayor of Dover Robin Christiansen, and all the volunteers and supporters who made this event possible!!
Rest easy, knowing you've put a smile on a child's face and helped to ease the burden of a family in need.
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Feed The Children is an international non-profit Christian organization providing food, clothing, educational supplies, medical equipment and other necessities to needy individuals. Founded in 1979 and guided by Christian values, Feed The Children's mission is to provide hope and resources for those without life's essentials. In the U.S., Feed The Children partners with over 1,200 local agencies, including food pantries, churches, and soup kitchens, to distribute meals and necessities to more than 400,000 families nationwide. Additionally, Feed The Children supplies backpacks filled with ready-to-eat meals, toothbrushes, school supplies and age appropriate books to homeless students enrolled in public schools with the hope of providing a sense of normalcy for children. For more about Feed the Children,
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Friday, November 14, 2014
New Member Training
Date: November 22, 2014
Place: The Life Center, 2801 Lancaster Avenue, Wilmington, DE 19805
Who Should Attend:
1) Anyone that joined/attended the Delaware Devoted Dads 2014 Summit
2) Anyone that previously registered Online or manually via a DFFC Membership Form
3) Anyone that wants to learn more about what it means to be an Active Member of the Delaware Fatherhood & Family Coalition (DFFC)
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Monday, November 03, 2014
What a Man Would Do: Perspectives on Fatherhood
Saturday November 8, 2014
University of Delaware Perkins Center- Gallery
325 Academy Street, Newark, Delaware
The Delaware Fatherhood & Family Coalition (DFFC) will be participating in a Panel Discussion for the Delaware Chapter of the March of Dimes & DHMI on Saturday November 8, 2014. The time for the panel discussion is from 1:00- 1:30 PM.
This is for the students and the “Preconception Peer Educator Training.” Feel free to join us if you can.
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Sunday, October 12, 2014
Dads gather in Wilmington to strengthen 'fathership'
5th Delaware Devoted Dads Summit
Beth Miller, The News Journal 11:28 a.m. EDT October 12, 2014
WILMINGTON – Maybe a man whose father wasn't around to guide and nurture him as a kid understands better than anyone why it matters
Certainly, there were many men at the fifth annual Delaware Devoted Dads Summit in Wilmington Saturday who understood it that way.
There was Wade Jones, who never met his father.
There was James Rodriguez, who was told as a 7-year-old that he would be the man of the house because his father left, and was told the same thing when he was 12 and his father died.
There was Kasai Guthrie, a 16-year-old junior at Glasgow High School, who founded "We Need Our Fathers" because he saw the gap in his own life.
Several hundred people attended the summit Saturday at the Chase Center on Wilmington's riverfront. The two-day event was organized by the Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition.
They went to workshops on relationships, parenting, dealing with trauma, what good fathers are like, and preventing domestic violence.
And they heard from speakers who get it.
Jones, now a professional counselor and working with kids in Sussex County, taught a workshop on rebuilding relationships after traumatic events. Trust, respect, and patience are critical issues.
"If a person has been victimized, traumatized or violated, a piece of them is always preparing for the next time," he said.
Jones said he had no male role models growing up at home.
"There were things I just did not know," he said. "Where I came from, if someone did something to you, you did 'X.' There were things I had to learn about being a responsible man."
Rodriguez, president and CEO of the Arizona-based Fathers & Families Coalition of America, told of his childhood path – a time in the child welfare system, time spent in gangs, and time spent as "the man of the house."
"What boy should be the man of anything?" he asked.
He recalled several things his father told him.
For example: "One day, I'm going to come back into your life." All Rodriguez could think was, "Why not today?"
Another time, he and his father were at Jones Beach in New York. The hot sand burned 2-year-old James' little feet, but his father told him he could handle it. Instead, his father carried the family dog, Angel.
"Who cries for the little boy inside of me?" he said.
Guthrie took it all in – learning things he will need as a dad.
"There are a lot of devoted dads here," he said. "They've been teaching me, even though they probably don't even know it. I've been watching them – how they talk, how they carry themselves. They've been showing me how to be a devoted dad."
With his 3-year-old daughter, Talina, sleeping in his arms, Jonathan Wilson Jr. said commitment is a key to being a devoted dad.
"We know 100 percent of children have fathers," said Wilson, who was paralyzed when he was shot by a robber in a Southbridge barber shop in 2011. "There's enough fatherhood not enough fathership. Fathership is the act or duties associated with being a committed father.... This has been a wonderful event to just be in fellowship with other men who have accepted the challenge and obligations of what God has put on our shoulders as men."
Bernard Stewart of Wilmington said he had to be a father figure to two younger brothers – even though his father lived two blocks away.
"Regardless of if you're in the home or not in the home, you've got to make that 100 percent commitment to be that devoted dad," said Stewart, whose son, Noah, will turn 1 in a few days. "To be there regardless of the ups and downs, if they need help or just need someone to tell you 'I love you.'"
U.S. Sen. Chris Coons and U.S. Rep. John C. Carney Jr. both attended.
Coons said he used to live near Carney in Wilmington, when Carney was still lieutenant governor. He would see him in the park on Saturday mornings with his sons – throwing footballs, frisbees, baseballs, whatever.
"And I knew the night before he had been out late at some fire hall downstate," Coons said. "When you do the right things, you never know when your children, your spouse or your neighbors are watching. He encouraged me to get up and do the things you ought to do as a father. It's so hard when you're exhausted. But it's the right thing to do."
Many women attended the summit. Some came with their husbands, some brought their sons, some helped to lead workshops and offer their own insights into family dynamics.
"I hope this experience will help young fathers understand the importance of supporting issues of importance to women and girls as well," said Nina DeVoe, who works for the Delaware Commission For Women. "They are fathers of daughters, so domestic violence, pay equity – these issues are also their issues as well. Having them change their lives to prevent domestic violence in their own families will build strong families in the future."
This fifth summit was the first held in Wilmington.
Mary E. Polk, who works for the state and is one of the founders of the group, said there has been a hunger in Delaware to build an understanding of fatherhood and support father-friendly programs.
"We started with seven or 12 people, grew to a membership of about 300," she said. "Now we're in all three counties ... and we're doing things in the community to bring awareness and to educate. People have that gap in their soul when a parent is missing, not only as a child but all through adulthood."
The Rev. David and Bernadette Mills, co-pastors of Through The Word Church in New Castle, both grew up in homes without fathers. Now raising five teens, they want their children to see life a different way.
"Our desire is to model for our children what it looks like to have a two-parent home," Bernadette said.
Those models can be powerful signposts.
"Sometimes in society we think you can't give what you didn't have," David Mills said. "I grew up without a dad, and even though I didn't have one, there were men around in my life, people around, as well as the word of God, the church, showed me what character was, what honor was, what order was." Such qualities can be learned, practiced, and passed along.
"We want it to be known that fathers throughout the state of Delaware can be fathers for life," said Darrell V. Freeman, training director for the Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition. "Not just start it and end it, not start it and wonder 'What do I do? Where do I go? How do I make this work? You can be a father for life."
Freeman said he and the Rev. Sheldon Nix developed six steps they believe are critical to strong fatherhood – copying (being a great role model), communication (talking and listening), commitment, co-parenting, being close to your child, and coaching your child.
"These six seeds we believe will turn Delaware around."
Delaware Fatherhood and Family Coalition - Monday, September 08, 2014
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Gerald Hearne - Monday, August 25, 2014
DFFC Train the Trainer Workshop
Saturday, August 30, 2014
at the Dover Public Library 35 E. Loockerman St., Dover, DE 19901
Registration: 10:00am | Train the Trainer Workshop: 10:00am-3:00pm
Who Should Attend: Anyone that is a DFFC member, has completed the DFFC Ambassador Training (Prerequisite) and is committed to training others to be DFFC Ambassadors.
Gerald Hearne - Monday, August 25, 2014